Monday, May 16, 2011
1st day of New Semester
Saturday, May 14, 2011
Countdown on my graduation journey
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Jz A Post..
Monday, September 21, 2009
一個人生活&兩個人生活
星期日,一覺睡到下午2 點還不願起床,我在旁邊叫喚他。
「起床了好不好?我們出去走走,去吃東西。」N遍之後,他仍在睡。
我下樓去,走到公園時,打了他手機,我想,這下,他不得不起床了吧?
響了好幾聲,他終於接了電話,只是他告訴我的是:「妳讓我過我自己想過的生活好不好?」
突然間,我不知該如何回應,倖倖然掛上電話後,一個人坐在公園裡,有點茫然有點不知所措,那麼我自己的生活又是什麼呢?
一個人的時候過自己的生活,兩個人的時候也各自過生活??
肚子餓了是唯一明確的方向,我漫步到肯德雞,點了餐,端了餐盤往樓上走,三三兩兩的人群,小孩的吵鬧聲在我耳邊沸騰著,我沒有感覺到煩燥,反而覺得這種人氣很好,我安靜的吃我的炸雞看我的報紙,四週喧嚷的小孩聲壓過了我心裡悲傷的低鳴聲,近日來,就情緒上來說,我並不太快樂,我需要注入一些快樂的聲音在我的心房。
一個小時後,我離開肯德基並外帶了一份餐,在往回家路上走著時,我重新思考著過自己生活的事情,我可以當作我是一個人生活,一個吃飽一個人散步一個人回家去嗎??
我不會,也不行,我可以一個人吃飯、一個人散步,可是我不會忘了要買一份食物給在家裡的家人,一個人的生活裡其實包含了兩個人。
婚姻裡,有一個很難的部份就是,你不明白什麼時候該一個人,什麼時候又該兩個人?
而女人卻會自然而然的照料跟妳一起生活的人,也許妳照顧不了他的心情,可是妳會顧及他的溫飽。
想著想著,就走到了家門口,我站在門口,有鑰匙卻沒有開門,我按了門鈴,他開了門....
「先生,請問你有沒有叫肯德基外帶全家餐?」我站在門口對他說。
他對我笑而不答。「沒有嗎?我送錯了啊??」我笑。
他把東西接過手,牽著我的手進了家門。
晚上,他居然帶我去逛了夜市耶,這是一件非常難得的事,因為他超討厭逛夜市,而且,他很有耐心陪我一條一條的逛著,臉上沒有一絲不耐煩。
我想,他明白這是 ------我一個人生活時愛做的事,二個人生活時也希望可以做的事。
如果存在,你會感到壓力,那麼,有一種善良 ─叫做 離開。
如果離開,你會感到輕鬆,那麼,有一種勇敢 ─ 叫做放棄。
忙的時候,想要休息; 渡假的時候,想到未來。
窮的時候,渴望富有;生活安逸了,怕幸福不能長久。
決定的時候,擔心結果不如預期;
看明白了,後悔當初沒有下定決心
不屬於自己的,常常心存慾望;
握在手裡了,又懷念未擁有前的輕鬆
「生命若不是現在,那是何時?」
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珍惜現在的友誼,珍惜你所愛的人.因為,很可能在下一秒鐘這些都將不復存,不要只留下自己為沒有珍惜過嘆息,為沒有珍惜過而生自己的氣.因為那為時已晚....
Friday, August 14, 2009
A 'sui' (aka bad) day :(
WaT a StUpId DaY tOdAy..
I have bank in my resource fees for 2nd year.. n yet.. When i checked my school account.. stated there that i haven settle wif the payment.. make me so angry and anxious.. haiz.. i tot straight away bank in den need not have ay follow up on tat.. WHO KNOWS!!!! i stil need to go 2 the bursary to collect my receipt only consider i already banked in the money!!! haiz.. den what for i bank in the money leh? i might as well straight away pay cash for that.. so gek si me..
This is not that worse.. my hp has expired and i can't make any call out.. so i need to call to HELP to double confirm with this.. i use skol's public phone.. n it cheated my money!!! sob sob.. altho just a 50 cents but.. it means alot to me nowadays as i dun really have much money for my daily expenses.. haiz.. suai la... stupid fon.. eat my money!!!!!
After made the call, i went into the toilet.. n i have forgotten that the 1st basin is spoilt.. i on the tap n the water split all over my clothes.. STUPID!!! why all this stupid stuff happened to me continuously? gek si me la...
After that, i go to class.. my children are having exam this week.. it's their last paper during my period.. after i've collected the exam papers.. i ask them to pass up their workbook as the assistant headmaster(AH) need to check their works.. wen they passed up.. oni i realised that i have 7 pages did not mark.. OMG.. headache.. i ask them to quickly hand in so that i can mark n hand it to the AH.. luckily i still manage to finish mark their works.. but.. AH said have to wait all passed up oni check.. SWT... i rushing so hard to let her check.. who knows...
4 students did not bring.. so have to wait Monday they pass up, finish my marking only send to AH... AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.... why la.. why this happen to me?
Next.. one of my student told me that she has lost her electronic dictionary.. she put it in the drawer before recess.. haiz.. how am i going to find in the very last 5 minutes? i asked my monitors to help out.. but they did not get any... haiz.. i have warm that girl not to bring expensive stuff to skol.. she dun listen.. wat can i do? I also ask her to keep her own properties properly.. haiz.. i trust my children will not take.. but.. where has it been? OMG... why this happen 2 me again? i've reported to AH.. her comment is: 'children nowadays are very smart, after they steal, they'll not put into their bag. they'll hide it somewhere and go to get it after class. quite make sense oso.. how come i never tot of that? OMG.. what have the movies teach them? how come nowadays the children's m
Okie la.. i think i enuf 'sui' this 2 days.. 2days before met accident.. luckily is ok.. not pretty much hurt.. den today happen all these... haiz..
Wish tmr will be a better day la.. got dinner at shangarila hotel.. i did not buy any dress.. just wear the 1 i wore b4..
okie.. i need 2 rest le.. tmr got tuition..shhuuu shhuuu all the 'sui qi'.. night ^^
:( sui day for pika,